Tuesday 27 July 2010

The Psychology of Restoring a Broken Marriage or Relationship

Hello again

Did you know that the statistics for the divorce rate in countries like the United States and the UK are at about 45% to 50%? And the figures for remarriage are not much more encouraging either. About 60 to 80 % of couples who remarry divorce again!

To me these are troubling statistics in a modern day society that seems to regard marriage as a "throw away item", try one on for size if it doesn't fit try another one on! Now I am not here talking exclusively about marriage in terms of relationship breakdown, although I will say I am an advocate of marriage and monogamy but I recognize that many people are in "committed" relationships of all sorts.

But we have to look at the consequences of ALL relationship break down on ALL parties, financial, emotional, psychological, spiritual and not least on innocent children to realize that relationship breakdown takes a huge toll on individuals, families and society as an whole!

So what happens if you feel that you have met the "love of your life" and for whatever reason that relationship breaks down? Let's face relationships are under huge pressure these days financial pressure, job pressure, status pressure whatever? There are hundred of reasons relationships come under pressure and begin to crumble, it's almost the norm! The pursuit of "happiness"' for many means that the first time problems arise in the marriage/relationship it's "I'm out of here see you!" or some other expression!

Back to my original question just what do you do to salvage a relationship that has already broken down?
Well for me you have to ask the question: is this situation capable of being salvaged? Do you really believe that the marriage or relationship can be salvaged? Well the answer is most definitely yes with a capital YES! However most people go about it in the wrong way and make things ten times worse than they were before!
But I am here to tell you that with the right techniques, a relationship or marriage that looks as dead as a dodo can be salvaged, even marriages or relationships that have seen the parties parted for years? However there is a psychology to this and unfortunately people do the opposite of what they should be doing!

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